Permanent contract at work will not guarantee that tomorrow you will not be browsing again wwww.iamjobless.com
An engagement ring on your finger does not mean that you will not be lonely in the next 20 years.
The fact that you live in a civilized advanced country will not protect your from crime, poverty, financial crisis, terrorism.
Security coming from the external world is delusional, it's just a momentum. It comes and it goes, and you can't do anything about that.
And if you are really looking for security, my friend, better look deep inside you because there is the only place where you can really find it.